arplookup failed: host is not on local network
you get rid of this message by adding the network to your interface by this command.
route add -net ipaddress/mask -iface re0
for FreeBSD rc.conf add lines like
static_routes="netdirekt" route_netdirekt="-net 217.20.117.0/24 -iface re0"
dont ask me how dirty this is, i am not responsable for our isps routing but for the logfiles
if you want to totaly disable arp notices
sysctl net.link.ether.inet.log_arp_wrong_iface=0